ut acerbus terminus

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
fibrofox
thesecretlifeofmecfs

Pain severity scale for chronic pain patients!

I always struggle with naming my pain #. After going through a couple occasions of 10/10 pain, I compare everything else to it. Even if my pain is very distressing there's this strange resistance/guilt to ever naming my pain above a 3 or 4.

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reference honestly a 3 is a great day for me about as good as it gets with my fibro i'm usually somewhere in the 4-6 zone and 6-8 is the fibro flare wave that hits every now and then if i cancel on something the odds are great that i'm at 7+ lmao otherwise i'm used to just. sucking it up. and accepting that i'm possibly using up my spoons for the next few days when i'm at a 3 i usually immediately spend it trying to be productive and cleaning the house and getting shit Done while i can which unfortunately also tends to mean it's not gonna be at 3 for very long but at least i get to be in pain in a cleaner house........
daftpatience
thiefking

actually you know what that's exactly it i would rather someone add 5 parantheticals after every sentence than use tone indicators it's 1. accomplishing SO much more in terms of clarity 2. extremely funny to look at depending on how they're used

thiefking

observe:

"is this real? /gen" — i thought /gen meant "general" for ages. i would not be able to understand this on first sight a few years ago and is thus ineffective

"is this real? (genuine question)" — i fully understand this without issue

"is this real? (genuine question) (can't tell) (very realistic) (looks real) (scary) (photoshop?)" — is not only incredibly clear it's also very funny to read all of these thoughts stapled together while also in their own parentheses. it's also the most useful because now i can actually address all parts of what they are asking me with as much specificity as BOTH of us need

yeah i would never have guessed what /gen was meant to convey without a whole list and the lists tend to have like! multiple meanings for the same shortenings! and then to make it WORSE some people will make internal in-group changes in meaning to some of them so they might /s when what they mean is /lh which in turn is being equally incomprehensibly used by the same person i would so much rather we all go full elcor speech and do the parenthetical elaborations honestly much as i enjoy shortening phrases i don't think tone tags are very universally useful if you have to also figure out whether that one person means the same thing as you when they use any given tag
norealgoodbyes

A New History of Fandom Purges

olderthannetfic

On November 24th, 2018, I posted a list of major deletions of sites or of content on sites that stripped fandom of its history. A bunch of pro-shipper blogs had just been deleted, and people were nervous. I suppose I was thinking “All this has happened before…”

On December 3rd, 2018, Tumblr’s Department of Irony announced the NSFW ban. Thanks for providing this salutary lesson to The Youth and a billion reblogs to me, I guess.

Today, we have AO3 for writing. Audio, images, and video are in as much danger as ever, yet fans attack AO3 every donation drive. For those of you who forget our past…

HERE IS WHAT HISTORY HAS TAUGHT US!


This is only a small taste of the many times that:

  • Fannish moderators got bored, ran out of money, or had a falling out, deleting a site/list/forum along the way.
  • Sites got bought out and closed for being unprofitable.
  • Fandom got hit as governments targeted piracy or political dissidents.
  • Fans grudge reported each other.
  • Official forums got deleted when the canon finished.

It’s not always malicious. It’s not always about us. But we lose every time.

Some of these purges hit everyone. Many of them hit m/m content specifically or female gaze-y material in general. This is why antis are dead wrong. This is why anti-fujoshi policies end up being anti-m/m policies. This is why we need clear labeling, not content restrictions.

This is why we need AO3.

And it’s why we need a solution for audio, visuals, and video too.

totallysilvergirl

So grateful for the historical memory and the long view on a phenomenon many of us have come to late, and/or take for granted.

And this is why AO3 generates twice its goal amount in just a few days: they are irreplaceable.

findingfeather

Also: they don’t have to be perfect to be irreplaceable, and they also don’t have to be perfect to be better than our other options.

(If you think you can make a better option, have at! Allez-y! Gods-speed! AO3 came out of people Just Doing It, so can your perfect ideal! But Also.)

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catsandcataclysms
how is there no option for 'hobbyists/makers who make things/engage in hobbies' that's like 90% of my youtube time i'm here to watch people paint miniatures and play violin charades and draw and customize dolls for fun also the fact that games aren't on the list either is wild